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Love your shoes….

Posted by controversial1 on January 12, 2008

I think it is time that I admit that I have a garment fetish or a clothing fetish. Not like some women that appear to me more excited in shopping for clothes than they do when having sex. Mine is a sexual fetish that evolves around a fixation upon a particular article or type of  clothing, a collection of  garments that  appear as part of a fashion or uniform, or a person dressed in such a garment.

My “fetish” does not follow the clinical definition of a sexual fetish, that requiring that a person is fixated on a specific garment to the extent that it exists as an exclusive (or recurrent) stimulus for sexual gratification. In other words, my fascination is not a necessary part of any sexual activity, I don’t feel the need for a partner to wear any particular garment during sexual relations.

For me, it is more of a visual stimulation.  Certain articles of clothing on a woman generate a significant amount of sexual tension.  This tension derived from “looking” at the garment on an individual either ceases or changes if the garment is removed.

Interestingly I can get aroused by looking at an individual wearing certain garments that arouse me.  However if I was actually involved in sexual relations with this individual I would not be able to see the garments perhaps.  There is a certain amount of voyeurism required on my part to enjoy the full effect.

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